But by the grace (the unmerited favor and blessing) of God I am what I am, and His grace toward me was not [found to be] for nothing (fruitless and without effect). 1 Corinthians 15:10a (AMP)

You need to be confident of who you are and what your relationship is with God in a world where people want to put you in a box and define you. But you must stand firm in your God-given identity.

Compile a list of verses from the Bible that tell you who you are. You can use these verses HERE

Use the questions below to further help you discover who you are. You need to do this BEFORE you meet a potential mate, because:

If you don’t know who you are, you won’t recognize who you’re supposed to marry.

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      •  My biggest fears in life are?
      •  My biggest needs in life are?
      • My most frequent mood is?
      •  The thing I hate most is?
      • The thing I worry about most is?
      • Three things I want to change about myself are?
      • Three things I really like about myself are?
      • My most common daydream is?
      • I get angry when?
      • My favorite kind of house pet is?
      • My overall opinion about myself is?
      • I think my greatest personality asset is?
      • My greatest personality weakness is?
      • I find the greatest enjoyment in?
      • The sin I struggle most with is?
      • I’m most ashamed about?
      • Someone I greatly admire is?
      • The way I feel about death is?
      • I think war is?
      • I feel happy when?
      • I have no use for people who?
      • When someone acts rude to me, I?
      • When someone is unfair, I?
      • I feel jealous of?
      • My dream vacation would include?
      • The things I find the most fun are?
      • My favorite sport(s) is?
      • I am disgusted by?
      • When I am afraid/ sad / angry/ happy/ lonely/ tired  I?
      • My hobbies include?
      • I spend [        ] hours a week at my hobbies.
      • What I really want when I am sick is?
      • The part of my body I am most bothered by is?
      • The part of my body I am most happy with is?
      • What hurts me most is?
      • The best (and worst) thing about life is?
      • The first thing I notice about someone is?
      • When someone is angry with me, I?
      • When someone is disappointed in me, I?
      • The worst (and best) thing about the opposite sex is?
      • Being teachable means?
      • People (including me) should say they’re sorry when?
See also  Prayer Points - Breakthrough for Marriage

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Questions from Julie Ferwerda (http://www.growthtrac.com/artman/publish/talk-it-out-before-you-say-i-do-856.php)

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