“Before You Do: Making Great Decisions That You Won’t Regret” by T.D. Jakes is a compelling and insightful book on marriage that provides readers with valuable guidance on making wise decisions in various aspects of life, from relationships and career choices to personal growth and self-discovery. With his wealth of experience as a pastor, author, and motivational speaker, Bishop Jakes offers a roadmap to help individuals navigate the complexities of decision-making, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling and purposeful life.
Here are 20 questions from the book Before You Do: Making Great Decisions That You Won’t Regret by T.D. Jakes. This is a great book for single Christian men and women. These are important questions to ask through the dating, relationship and pre-engagement.
These question help you gather all the information you need to make a decision on the person you are considering sharing the rest of your life with.
Dating
Where do you stand on faith?
What are your most prized possessions?
What was your last major relationship like? How did it end?
How satisfied are you with your present career?
How do you handle disagreements and disappointments?
What do you expect?
Relationship
What are the secrets that you keep? Will you trust me to keep them too?
Have you ever been arrested and do you have a criminal record?
Do you have children or other children outside marriage?
What role do you see your parents, siblings and extended family playing in your relationship?
What annoys you the most about me? What do you enjoy the most about being with me?
Pre-Engagement
What are the roles of husband and wife for you?
How do you feel about having children?
How do you feel about disciplining children?
What is your vision for this family? Where would you like us to be in ten or twenty years?
What is your debt-to-income ratio?
What are your ideas about sexuality?
Do you know your HIV/AIDS status?
Is there any need or desire for a prenuptial agreement?
Do you have a will or a living will and can we talk about it?
The answers, good and bad, to these questions are for you to weigh up prayerfully and make your choice. Click here to get the book for more on these questions and advice on relationships and marriage